The Art of Giving Advice

Be nice. Be wise. Be kind. There is fruit in that approach—real reward.

When we speak to people with care, when we show them that our words come from concern rather than control, they feel it. They recognize when advice is rooted in love. Approaching others gently, especially youth, opens the door to trust and understanding.

Giving advice isn’t about insisting or forcing someone to listen. It’s about patience. I’ve learned never to give up on people, especially family. There are always ways to reach someone if we’re willing to be thoughtful and intentional in how we speak.

Sometimes, offering guidance is an art. It requires wisdom—knowing when to speak, how to speak, and when to simply listen. A harsh word can close a heart, but a kind one can invite reflection and change. Being wise in our approach allows our message to land without pushing others away.

In the end, kindness carries weight. Wisdom builds bridges. And care, when it’s genuine and sincere, builds community.